Oh Cup of Tea, Thank You

I do indubitably think that it is time to return back to the way I started this blog.

As I stated before…..crap.  I forgot what I was going to say.  See, that’s what happens when you leave ya computer mid-sentence lol.  Oh!  I remember now! I may have said this before, but usually when I do blogs, I’ve thought about them for a bit before writing.  Since I’ve been berated for this, I apologize to everyone that I have ‘duped’.  Since I have wronged the person who pointed this out to me (Candice Cadena, that’s right, I’m puttin ya name all out there) I’ll actually blog off the top of my head.

Ready?

Ok, as always I’ll just give some facts about me, but this time they will be more light-hearted facts:

-When I shower, I start with my face, then my left shoulder.

-When I brush my teeth, I start with the front teeth.

-I’m very vain about my teeth because I think they are the best thing that I have going on for me.

-When I was in elementary school, I was in Chorus for two years before I started playing my instrument and I loved every second of it.  I wish I could sing now 😦

-I’ve never been on an official date before.  All the other ones have been conditional in some way i.e. they didn’t think it was a ‘date’ date, other people were there, they re-nigged on our plans (canceled),etc.  Funny thing is, I have a job, I work, and I know there are women out there that would like to go out on a date with someone, but connecting all that together just….hasn’t happened for me haha.

-I have horrible spelling because I tend to spell things the say way that I say them.  And I usually speak in slang, or pronounce certain letters differently (for example, pronouncin my t’s as d’s and pronouncin vowels differently than they are written).  Here’s an example:  the way I say definitely would be spelled defanentley, and according to Websters that’s wrong lol.

-I have a problem with washing/drying my face with the same towel/cloth that I washed my feet and *ahem*areas with, so I use two separate cloths to wash with and I usually use a different towel every time I wash.  I think I’m just going to have two separate towels from now on though lol.

-When movies like The Matrix and Inception came out, the initial concepts did not surprise me as being a possibility and I was surprised that people had never thought about our reality possibly being something as what was depicted in these movies.

-I think people that really do believe that they can’t pass on Herpes after they get it are fucking stupid.  Real talk, if know you will be taking medicine for the REST OF YOUR LIFE in order to stop the outbreaks,  does that not mean that you will have this virus for THE REST OF YOUR LIFE?  And because it is a sexually transmitted disease, why wouldn’t you be able to pass it on at any point for THE REST OF YOUR LIFE?  I’ve never heard anyone saying that you won’t get Herpes if there isn’t an outbreak, and if anyone believes that then you’re in ya own lil world.

-I think that a lot of people at Soka “wear their intelligence on their sleeves”.  OK, I get it.  You were one of the smartest in your high school, I know that.  Yes, I know that you have a lot of book knowledge about shit.  Why can’t we ever have a conversation without someone always correcting someone in an arrogant, knowitall, assholeish way?  Or, why can’t people actually see what someone is saying besides listening to the exact words that they are saying?  Look, don’t flaunt your intelligence.  I just makes you look like a douche bag and I won’t really care about what you’re saying anyways haha.

-I get bored with things really fast, but I can usually have fun in just about any situation.

-I wish I was able to learn a martial art when I was growing up.

-Before I could walk, I never, ever, walked straight in a walker.  I always back peddled to anywhere I wanted to go because I was boss like that.

-I’m afraid of the dark when I’m alone and not going to sleep.

-Occasionally I cry for no reason.

-Because I was sheltered a lot growing up, there are a lot of movies and things that I missed out on that a lot of people think I should have been exposed to.  On the other hand, I was exposed to a lot of things that many people can’t even believe.

-I love my job, but I hate dealing with the students and faculty because they always try to fuck you over despite being a school about creating value and such.

-I hate what money represents in our (the world’s) society.

-I’ve noticed that if I like a song enough to have it on repeat, once I get to about 50 plays (according to my iTunes) I usually get tired of listening to the song.

-I often wish that I had an identical twin so that we could call each other out on our faults.

-I trust, and as a result make friends with, women more than niggaz because if you’re nice to the right woman, they’ll help you out even when you’re at your lowest point in your life.

-When I look at a girl that I’m interested in, I think about what our kids would potentially look like if we got together.

-I want to be proficient in a least one dance style and I practice when I’m alone, but me being alone at any point in time is very rare, hence why I’m not good at dancing haha.

-I hate when I HAVE to check my email.

-When I’m scared of a response to something, I hesitate for long periods of time before opening whatever it is. (letter, email, text, voicemail) And that often gets me into worse trouble.  But I’m getting better about that.

-When I think someone is lying to me, I smile and usually ask them to tell me more about it.  If I know they are lying to me, I keep it moving and don’t question them at all about it.

-Soka is my Heaven and Hell.

-I love people that are very religious, but don’t force their ideas on you and respect you as a person; even if they aren’t open-minded about religion.

That’s about all I can think of for now.  My bad if that was too much information or anything like that.

As my final thoughts before I finish up to help make dinner…

I wanna give a shout-out to my homie Cody Reynolds for bein my homie and for kickin it with me last night.  The man is seriously goin places and hopefully I will be as successful as I know he will be.  I love having deep conversations and especially in SC I rarely have a chance to have them, so I thank him for that as well.

Speakin of shout-outs, I’ll continue my shout-outs in the next blog, promise.  I been out of it this past week (ever since the day before my birthday), but I’m back now.  =)

I’ll now go sip on some tea that I bought recently because warm tea with a bit of soy milk calms my nerves and relaxes me.  So, thank you chamomile n soy milk tea for chillin with me and keepin me warm so that I could stay optimistic about things.  Even though you’re gone now, you helped me in ways that most other things can’t.

P N B E (peace n be easy)

James Shonin Kelly III